Comments on: I can’t even share my bed with boyfriends… http://indecisivepeach.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/ Thu, 03 Nov 2011 03:08:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: krista http://indecisivepeach.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-966 Sun, 15 Apr 2007 14:58:02 +0000 http://indecisivepeach.wordpress.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-966 Hmmm, am I a mommy blogger?

Funny.

I went through this phase where I was really embarrassed by some of Aidan’s behaviours. I would introduce him to someone and he would instantly transform into a cat, or a cheetah or something equally bizarre, and start licking his hand or something.

I used to get all bent out of shape about it.

I don’t personalize his behaviour anymore. He is his own person, and he will act in his own bizarre ways, and I don’t let it bother me, or worry about how it reflects on me as a parent anymore.

I just do my very best raising him and if he acts in undesirable ways, I tell remind myself he is his own person and not an extension of me.

PS- My kids kick me out of my bed everymorining. Little dudes snuggle right up into me and the husband, climb all over us, and we are forced to get up and out.

At nighttime though, that bed is MINE!

]]> By: The Rebuker http://indecisivepeach.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-546 Thu, 15 Mar 2007 21:59:00 +0000 http://indecisivepeach.wordpress.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-546 Excuse me, “a rag and a bucket”

]]> By: The Rebuker http://indecisivepeach.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-545 Thu, 15 Mar 2007 21:57:50 +0000 http://indecisivepeach.wordpress.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-545 Seriously, you have the right idea. Kids are not friends. They’re cute and you can love them and cherish them and what not, but it is imperative you put them to work by age three. My daughter is already mopping the floor (not very well, but it’s a start) and dusting all the wood in the house. To heck with all that martyr-mommy crap. Work makes you free (when you’re 18)!
On a wierd side note, the last time I had my daughter mop the floor she asked for a rag and a mop so she could clean the floor like Cinderella. What do you say to that?

]]> By: firewings http://indecisivepeach.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-528 Thu, 08 Mar 2007 05:16:11 +0000 http://indecisivepeach.wordpress.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-528 I mentioned this in class the other day, about how I read quite a few mommy blogs. It’s nuts. I’m not sure how I fell into it, but I have. There are some great mommy bloggers though. See Blogroll.

]]> By: eatsbugs http://indecisivepeach.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-527 Thu, 08 Mar 2007 00:40:42 +0000 http://indecisivepeach.wordpress.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-527 You’re a blogger. You instantly come equipped with mommies swarming all around you. However, I now threaten to stop reading you if you start making a mommy-blog before you have children. Just saying…

Also, TV is for losers, but I love you all the same.

]]> By: E http://indecisivepeach.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-524 Wed, 07 Mar 2007 22:14:10 +0000 http://indecisivepeach.wordpress.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-524 That’s even worse. Children are not for me at this point in my life, that’s for sure…

]]> By: firewings http://indecisivepeach.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-523 Wed, 07 Mar 2007 21:41:48 +0000 http://indecisivepeach.wordpress.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-523 I could make Alien references – but I won’t.

]]> By: E http://indecisivepeach.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-522 Wed, 07 Mar 2007 20:06:24 +0000 http://indecisivepeach.wordpress.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-522 All this talk of being a mommy frightens and confuses me. I am a stranger in a strange land.

]]> By: thebutton http://indecisivepeach.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-521 Wed, 07 Mar 2007 07:02:30 +0000 http://indecisivepeach.wordpress.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-521 I watch those shows too, quite often, actually. I call it my “what not to do as a parent show” and “ah, tips for if it does get that way.” Cuz we’re not all perfect. My first rule is, baby has it’s own room. I will not, let the baby sleep in my bed or in my room. Hubby time is important to me.

There’s also a no citrus rule for babies too. I think they can’t have it until they are a year old too and it’s mainly due to their digestive system. If you want runny poo and a cranky baby, go for it.

Mommy boot camp? Pshaw, that’s why you have us mommies and future mommies as friends. We can hash out the advice and scare the hell out of you when it’s your turn to be blessed. ;)

~Jen

]]> By: Erin http://indecisivepeach.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-520 Wed, 07 Mar 2007 03:13:40 +0000 http://indecisivepeach.wordpress.com/2007/03/06/i-cant-even-share-my-bed-with-boyfirends/#comment-520 eh you don’t need Mommy boot camp thats why they have all those nice books to tell you what to do… you know the parents on supernanny probably read those too.

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